Coming soon to iPhone and Android

Skip the texting and start connecting.

Speak with up to 10 matches on event night. Calls start with voice then add video, so you can feel the mental-emotional connection on its own first.

  • Mutual matches only
  • Voice first, then video
  • For adults 18 and over

Why You+Love

Less browsing. More connecting.

Most dating apps keep you scrolling and messaging. And if you’re trying to see if you have a connection with someone, wouldn’t you rather talk with them?

Only mutual matches

Before each event, like the people you’d like to meet. Event night pairs you only with people who liked you back.

Voice first, then video

Every Connection-Layered Call™ starts with 5 minutes of voice, then adds 2 minutes of video. Rather stay on voice? Either of you can.

A clear next step

After each call you both choose: not interested, a longer call, or a date. A next step happens only when you both want one.

How it works

From a like to a date in four steps

  1. 1

    Register for an event

    Pick an event near you in the app. You’ll see the price before you pay.

  2. 2

    Like who you’d like to meet

    Before the event, see who’s going and like the people you’re curious about. A like back makes a match.

  3. 3

    Talk on event night

    Join from your phone. Your calls open one after another: up to 10 seven-minute calls, each with a match.

  4. 4

    Plan what’s next

    When you both want more, book a longer call or a date from your match’s open times.

See every step

Event night

Two hours. Up to ten conversations.

Here’s how a You+Love event goes, from the first hello to the last question.

  1. 5 minutes before

    Join from the Events tab

    The app counts down to your first call and tells you who it’s with.

  2. Every call

    7 minutes: voice, then video

    Five minutes of voice, then two of video. When time’s up, your next call opens on its own.

  3. Between calls

    A minute to answer

    How did it go? Then a quick Safety & Respect check. Your answers decide what happens next.

  4. After the last call

    Two closing questions

    Did you feel a special connection tonight? Someone else with potential? If you picked each other, you get one more call.

Safety

Respect is built into every call

Selfie and ID check

Signup asks for a selfie and a photo of a government ID, and our team reviews them.

Your number stays private

Calls happen inside the app. Nobody sees your phone number, and calls are never recorded.

A check-in after every call

Did you feel disrespected? Did anything make you feel unsafe? If something made you feel unsafe, the match ends and our team takes a look.

Report or block anytime

From a profile, a call, or a chat, report or block in a few taps. A block hides you from each other and cancels the plans you made.

How we keep you safe

Pricing

Pay for the events you choose

Booking an event starts your membership for the month, with full use of the app. There’s no separate subscription fee, and the more events you go to, the less each one costs.

See pricing

Your first event in a month$29

Events 2 to 5$10 each

Event 6 and onFree

If an event’s own price is lower, you pay that instead.

Coming soon

Coaching, for the dating you want

We’d be honored to help you become the best version of yourself, ready for the right relationship. Choose the topics you’d want help with in the app’s Coaching tab and join the waitlist.

  • First date prep
  • Better conversations
  • Confidence
  • Mixed signals
  • Dating burnout

FAQ

Questions, answered

What happens at an event?

An event is an evening of back-to-back calls in the app. Each call lasts 7 minutes, with a minute in between to answer two quick questions. You can have up to 10 calls, and the whole event runs about two hours.

Who will I talk to?

Only your mutual matches. Before the event, you see the people registered for it who fit what you’re looking for, and who are looking for someone like you. Like the people you’d like to meet. When someone likes you back, you’re a match.

On event night, the app schedules your calls with your matches, starting with the ones you both marked as a priority.

Do I need to go anywhere?

No. Events happen in the app, wherever you are. Find a quiet spot with good light and a steady connection, and you’re set.

Do I have to be on video?

No. Every call starts with 5 minutes of voice, and video opens for the last 2 minutes. If either of you would rather stay on voice, tap Remain voice only and the call stays on voice for both of you.

How much does it cost?

You pay for the events you choose: $29 for your first event in a membership month, $10 each for events 2 to 5 that month, and nothing for event 6 and beyond. If an event’s own price is lower, you pay that instead.

Your membership, with full use of the app, comes with the events you book. See Pricing for the details.

Is everyone verified?

Everyone is asked for a selfie and a photo of a government ID when they sign up, and our team reviews them.

All questions

Your next great conversation is one event away

Register for an event, like the people you’d like to meet, and spend an evening talking with your matches.